c paw this is what it says when i try to pm....You have turned off private messages. You may not send private messages until you turn them on by editing your options. i know its probably something easy but big time not very smart....thanks c paw!!!
sorry for getting back to you so late been a crazy day.
If you don't have PM here is how to activate it:
click user cp next to blogs,
click edit options - in the middle of that page it says messaging + notifications
check off enable private messaging.
You should be all set after that. Let me know if you have any problems and GL big time 3!